Coaching

Help! How Do I Make This Decision?

I have talked about trusting your gut in some of my other posts when it comes to decision making.   There are times where you are dealing with such an ambiguous situation that you may not have anything else to go on.  We even had buttons in our office that said “ambiguity is my friend” on them because we had to deal with so many unknowns.  These type of situations will force you to make decisions with what you know at the…
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Confessions of a Procrastinator

In yesterday’s post, Do Something Great Today I talked about getting things done and how people work differently.  What that really comes down to is procrastination.    The word procrastination means “the act of delaying or postponing something.”    What I described as my work style yesterday was my “procrastination” to get started on things and delaying them until the last possible minute.    It is a habit that I have had as long as I can remember.  Cramming for tests the night before, writing…
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Are you ready for a big opportunity?

  Opportunities come along every day, but are you ready for them when they happen?   It would be great if you could predict what to know and when to be ready, but you can’t.  All you can do is to prepare yourself as much as you can, be ready to learn on the job and from others who can mentor you. Let me share a story with you that illustrates this point.  A football player named Jordan Howard played the…
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What are you waiting for? Ask for what you want!

                  The beginning of the year is the time of the year to clean the slate and try new things.   What things have you been thinking about, but haven’t put into action yet?   What is holding you back?  So many people that I work with have a lot of dreams and aspirations for change to occur, but are hesitant to try.   So let’s clean the slate and try a new approach. Write…
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Don’t turn me in. I am an Impostor!

I heard an interesting podcast today on the subject of being an impostor.  This is something that many people feel throughout their career.  Here are some of the questions that go through an impostor’s mind: “What if people find out I don’t know everything that I should?  What if they realize I am not ready for this role and they shouldn’t have given me the job?”   Does this sound like you? Surprisingly this happens to many high potential people, especially…
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Want to be more productive? Block time on your calendar.

During this time of year, parents all over the country are getting up at 4:30 am in the morning on the weekends to drive their children to all-day regional volleyball tournaments.  Some people even fly out of state for the national tournaments.  This didn’t really exist when I was younger, or at least I didn’t know about it.  Both of my girls were a part of club volleyball for about 5 years.  At times my husband and I would have…
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What Do You Need To Do To Get The New Job?

  Are you about to go for a job interview?   Many people that I used to work with are going through the job interview process now.  They haven’t had to interview for years and have some anxiety about the process as you might expect.   Here are some tips that I would share with anyone going through the interview experience. The first thing to do is to get to know yourself.    What are your values, strengths, opportunities and accomplishments?   You will…
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Are You Ready to Dream Big?

My husband and I went to see the Trans-Siberian Orchestra (TSO) tonight.  If you haven’t heard of them before, they are a group of singers, musicians, songwriters and storytellers that tour at Christmas time.   They have been playing rock music with a combination of art, stories and visual effects for the past 21 years.  They play some traditional Christmas music, as well as their own songs.   Many of the songs are so great that they don’t even require lyrics or…
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Don’t Know What To Do? Follow This Advice!

Have you been in a situation at work that you are unsure of what to do?  I am sure that this has happened to you in your career at some point along the way.  It is a vulnerable place to be as a leader feeling like you should have all the answers.  Although you are in the leadership role for what you know and what you can get done, it is just not possible for you to know everything.   I…
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Building Authentic Connections One Day At A Time

For simplification reasons, I recently moved some of my accounts to a different bank that is near where I live.  I noticed immediately that when I walked into the bank I was greeted by a person seated near the entrance.  They asked me how I was doing, what my name was, how could they help me and offered me a coffee or a water.  Was I really at a bank?  Then they walked me to the office of the person…
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